It's Not Everyone That Will Love You

Thursday, 17 August 2017

It's not everyone that will love you

I think that we are too concerned about what people think... I used to be.

Dear Me, 

Most of us have that fear of someone else not liking us or not being friends with us, which is completely understandable. But the real question everyone meant to like you? I always used to be very concerned about what other people think of me, how I should look to other people and how to change people's perception of me. At the end of the day, when I look at it I was never being my trueself, really and truly I was not a happy person. I kept up with appearances and was being what other people wanted me to be so that I could fit in. After a few things happened, I came to realise that not everyone will love you, you're not meant to be loved by everyone which is a hard thing to hear but sorry to be mean, it's the truth. Take for instance the Kardashians, the majority of people love them but there is a lot of people that hugely dislike them. 

Don't get me wrong being loved by people is nice, it feels great and it's nice to be around people that love you. But it is important to be yourself, don't ever go changing yourself for anybody else. People will come in and out of your life, some of them will stay and that is absolutely normal so please don't go blaming yourself. You are not at wrong for not everyone loving you, the way I see it, you haven't meant the right person or people yet.

Continue to be yourself, continue to be loving, continue to be kind, continue to be the person that you are and even if they still don't love that is your own loss, because you are one in a million. There is a reason why everyone is not the same in this world. Don't be upset if you find out that someone doesn't love/like you the same way you did, it is completely normal. One thing that I want you to take from this blog post is that, it is normal for not everyone to love you or like you.

From Me

How do you feel about the idea that "not everyone will love you"? How do you deal with it?

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